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Rave Reviews about Toni's Consultation:

“I have worked with Toni and mutual clients for over 8 years. She not only relies on evidence-based practices, she really understands the experience of autism and gets amazing results compassionately and quickly.”

(Zahra Haji, ABX Solutions MS, BCBA)

“Toni, your help is priceless!” 

Sue Taylor, Adult with Autism

“I learned more about autism and relationships in a few hours with Toni than I did in months of therapy.”

Myra Brower (parent of two boys with autism, Charleston, SC)

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“Toni's knowledge, expertise and ability to see the unique qualities in each person combines with her ability to collaborate and foster success in reaching the goals her clients set. She has helped to change the trajectory in our son's life and has made a significant positive impact on our family."

Jane Vaughan, parent


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This presenter was the best I have ever had in my 38 years of teaching and going to these

trainings ever experienced.  Intro to Autism trainee


Finally, someone who understands HFA and has real solutions that I can use with my higher functioning students.  ABBIS trainee


So perfectly paced and so interestingly enhanced with stories and examples that I was with her every step of
the way. I learned so much! And enjoyed it! 
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Outstanding!  Intro to Autism Trainee


I wish all presentations were as informative.  ABBIS trainee

I've been working with folks on the autism spectrum for over 26 years.  My daughter was diagnosed with PDD-NOS when she was 11 and although I have never been “officially” diagnosed, my clients and friends who know me well say Asperger's is the reason I “get it”.  I have to admit it is the logical assumption.  People often refer to me as “The Autism Translator”.


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No one learns well or communicates effectively in a state of fight or flight.  Treat anxiety and sensory issues first.


People with high-functioning autism have brains like custom computers.  Download the code for a Mac or PC and you are bound to have glitches at best, and crashes at worst.  But find the right code to connect with us and you might be amazed at our capability.


Instead of focusing on our differences as “problems” that need to be fixed, ask yourself how these unique characteristics are currently working for us or how they can be harnessed and utilized as strengths.


Connection comes first.  Adaptation to social rules come as a  result of this healthy connection.

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Teens & adults on the autism spectrum can live safe, healthy, happy lives.

Connect with Toni for a free brainstorming session to see how you can help your son or daughter reach their full potential.


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If you care about someone on the spectrum but are worried about how they are going to make it in life, then you have come to the right place. Take it from someone who has been there. I'm the mother of a grown child on the spectrum, an autism consultant and people say I am an undiagnosed aspie. Yes, I live and breathe autism and one thing I know for certain is that the right understanding and support from you can make the world of difference for your son or daughter.


It troubles me deeply to see other people on the autism spectrum shutting down or not living up to their full potential so it is my mission to help you create a meaningful connection and the right environment for your son or daughter to flourish.


The steps you take today can help them live a safe, healthy, happy and productive life now and long after you are gone.  But this requires examining many of your preconceived notions about autism and ignoring most expert advice about how to “fix” it. Instead, I am going to ask you to pay attention to and learn to read the hidden messages your child has been sending you through their behavior every time they flip a light switch, listen to that song 379 times or get lost in their favorite video game for 9 hours straight without eating or taking a bathroom break. When you understand your son or daughter's motivations, how they feel and what they really long for & need you will be able to create a profound connection and foster their independence.


It isn't rocket science but it does involve following a step-by-step process to address the persistent physical pain, anxiety and communication challenges they face so their true potential can shine through and you can sleep peacefully!


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This website was created at Mean Stream Studios by a talented guy in touch with his autistic genius. Want to learn more about Dan? Head over to MeanStream Studios and check him out!